If your friend decides to drink and drive, just take their keys. Shawn Merriman might have been a bit overzealous in his actions. Tila did not want to join Merriman and his two other girlfriends in private. She simply took off her clothes and decided to leave. Nothing wrong with that. Merriman concerned for her safety went after her like she was Brady Quinn. (By the way Browns, nobody cares which crappy qb you are starting. They will still throw 3 interceptions a game and you will go 5-11. Enough with the big mystery.) It appears that he grabbed her by the arms and shook her until she sobered up a bit. Not sure if he threw in his stupid lights out dance but he did not appear to hurt her. He may be forced to only date two women at a time instead of three once this gets out there. Now the San Diego DA is saying that there are no charges to be filed. Merriman will probably have to dip into his wallet and this will all go away. Just like his career if he gets busted for roids again and her career once she hits 25.